Why are all these old boyfriends showing up now?

Have you ever had the experience of deciding to change your life, and then suddenly all sorts of temptations appear to throw you off track?In our Attract Your Ideal Mate class we warn our participants about half way in that once they make the commitment to attract an Ideal Mate, many of their previous relationships will make another appearance. This happens with such regularity that we've made it a topic of the course. In one such instance a participant was contacted by several old boyfriends within the same week.What's going on here? We think what's happening is that Spirit/God/theDivine (how ever you want to call it) is arranging another opportunity for choice. Some think of it as a test of sincerity to choosing a new way of living (in this case, a new kind of relationship), but I wonder if it's not also an opportunity to achieve closure with old relationships before moving on to the rewarding next one.Has this happened to you, either with relationships or with other big life changes?Elaine